Yesterday in a nutshell is this. No BioMom at visit, just Dad.. and we want to make sure that is okay. I contacted the Legal caseworker man. So far I have not heard back from him. I also wanted to double check those court dates again. The other parties involved know nothing about the second date (and that is the one that I have made work arrangements to be at). Also, I have not managed to get to the WIC office yet, so IF WIC is already in place for the kiddos... Bio is having some yummie egg and cheese omelets that we should be getting. It seems like the state would somehow roll that over automatically. There are sure a lot of hoops to jump through. Wouldn't be such an issue IF we didn't work, or some of theses places had one night a week that they had late hours, Or if the company I work for wasn't so difficult to get needed time off... GGRRRRR
Today Sissy wasn't feeling all that well, the school called Rabbit at work, but left her no message. They then called my phone and did leave a message, which I didn't get in time because we cant have our phones at work. So I got it as I was leaving work to pick her up.
Once I got to the school they said that she was feeling a bit better. We think she was 'slightly' under the weather.. but also we think some of it was behavioral. She had told us that 'Mommie is in the Hospital" and that's why she wasn't at visit. She will state that she needs to go to the hospital fairly regularly. (like the time her lip was bleeding). So we just down played it and sure enough she started saying that she was "not sick now".
We again came home from school missing our clothes and with some other clothes that didn't belong to us. Rabbit always washes the incorrect clothes. Days later when we do get our clothes back they are multiple days in a plastic pee bag. fermented and gross. It is partially my fault for not opening the bag and checking the contents. I guess I will start peeking in the pee bag in search of something familiar. That wont help for straight up missing items. (Rabbit does drop off duty therefore; I'm not sure when I pick them up If they are in original or backup outfits). but at least we won't have to wash another kiddos soiled clothing items.
Tonight at supper, Sissy had asked for more food. I told her that we have had enough (She had a big cheeseburger, a double helping of beans, a double helping of jello, a few chips, and multiple glasses of water. She was 100% fine with not having more food. After all, I knew she was no longer hungry and she was just asking because they will just keep eating if you let them. She didn't even care that I said enough.. which I will interpret as 'she is beginning to realize that there will always be more/enough food for her here' - so no need to get upset.
Thanks to a kind friend, the Duo will have new beds tomorrow. No more crib for Bug. and No more giant bed for Sissy. I'm sure they will both be excited about that.
Tomorrow is also another Bio visit. It would have been nice to have some answers to the is Dad allowed to visit without Mom question.
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